September 20, 2003
Saturday, Fr. Thomas goes to Burqin. Marthame joined him in the early morning once again. This historical church is also a joy to visit, with its ancient Helena-era and pre-Helena-era sanctuaries. "How fortunate you are, Fr. Thomas told them, "to hear the steps of Christ passing through your town."
This evening, we were invited to the engagement party of the daughter of dear friends. We put on our best duds and went to the church hall, which was packed. Somehow, everything here runs on "Arab time" except parties. Once we came half an hour after the stated beginning time (what we thought would be about on time) of a wedding party, and all the food was already served. So we were not surprised when the fiancé and fiancée arrived not long after us. Music played as they and their family made a grand processional entrance, and then there was lots of dancing, some champagne (which they poured together overflowing some glasses, and then cake for everyone. And more dancing, and then the presentation of gold to the bride-to-be by her in-laws. And more dancing.